Recently i decided to quit the hellhole website spacehey (the site itself is fine, the people there arent, also every other day there are ddos or gore attacks) and i keep crawling onto the site, crawling back, like an addict trying to quit but costantly falling back into their addiction. i feel ashamed, embarressed of it. im trying to forget it but i have no idea how, i mean one of the discord servers i joined was from there. having an edited spacehey logo and having spacehey in its name... Also i fucking met my bf on there. im ashamed
Yatsufusa
DDoS attacks & gore are hardly the things a community would do to itself. I don't know anything about that site (except what you just told us), but I wouldn't say that the degree of harassment by "outside forces" says much about a community.
BugsAjax
the DDoS attacks and gore spams are mostly from like teenage edgelords who got mad that they got banned for posting neo nazi shit